The Four Words That Make For Better Sex
A sex expert has claimed that every single person’s experience during sex can be made better by saying just four simple words.
Dr Emily Morse, a Doctor of Human Sexuality, claimed on her Instagram that the four best words to turn on your partner are simply “Do you like this?”
Communication is key to the best sex; as much as people like to think that sex is somehow intuitive and people just know what is right for you, more often than not the best sex comes both from getting to know each other’s bodies and understanding each other better.
Some people get really turned on by oral sex and other people find it too intense. Some people want to add sex toys to the bedroom but before you order next day sex toys it is important to know whether your partner is into that or not.
Checking in on your partner makes them feel seen, gives them a chance to say if anything could make it even better, or better yet allows them to respond simply with moans.
Even outside of each other, this communication during incredibly intimate moments can help in other areas of your life, as it encourages a relationship based on openness, mutual trust and ensuring everyone is happy.
As well as this, sex is all about mutual pleasure, and if anyone involved isn’t completely satisfied, then there is a problem that needs to be addressed. Sometimes, just asking those four words reveals a new kink your partner loves and can make your love life even more intense.
Whenever in doubt, just ask.