How A Clit Stimulator Can Transform Your Bedroom Fun

Few organs in the human body are understood less than the clitoris - and there really is no reason for that.

Okay, perhaps that’s an exaggeration; no doubt your GP can tell you about some little-known gland you have never even heard of that does something most people know hardly anything about. But this is the clit we’re talking about; it is an organ that has one single function: female sexual pleasure.

That single fact means it is something that warrants lots of attention and understanding, since it is central to how at least one partner in a couple experiences one of life’s most important and - supposedly - enjoyable experiences. That is why there is no reason not to know everything there is to know about it - and respond accordingly.

Firstly, there is the matter of homology. If you think homology has something to do with alternative medicine, you need to read on; it’s all about equivalent organs, in this case, the development before you are even born of your sex organs.

Quite simply, the same organ will either develop into a penis in males or a clitoris in females. This startling fact is not known to everyone who has a penis swinging between their legs, but lads, it should be. Imagine trying to have sex without your big fella? There’s a reason it was the worst possible thing to happen to Theon Greyjoy in Game of Thrones.

In the same way, if you want a lady to hit the big O, a clitoral stimulator may be the toy of choice. There are far more nerves in a clit than a penis, so the potential for pleasure is huge. But if hitting it in the sweet spot is a problem, investing in the right sort of device may help you out.

The tip of the clitoris, which can feel like a little button at the top of her flowery bits, is the equivalent of the head of the penis. It can often get engorged when aroused, a bit like an erection. But this does not always happen.

Another important thing to know is that much of this organ is internal. It stretches back inside, lies above the vagina, and its tissues also spread around it like wings.  

Much of this is out of reach, but it can all feel pleasure, thanks to the stimulation on the tip of the clit itself, or just around it (direct stimulation can be a little too intense at times). But whether it is by hand or tongue, or grinding of the pelvic bone in sex, it can sometimes be hard to land on ground zero.

Rather than being like a darts thrower aiming at the bullseye but missing, a good clit stimulator can land bang on the button (literally) and the results can be truly fantastic. If you are a man who was more team Oppenheimer than team Barbie, think of what happened when the bomb went off. Metaphorically at least, it will be that hot.

Quite simply, once you bring this wonderful device into the bedroom, you won’t want to do without it.