Easy Shortcuts To Feeling Sexy

Sometimes, our minds are telling us that we need sex, but our bodies are just not interested in playing the game. This could be down to your hormones doing their own thing, stress, or just plain old tiredness. However, this doesn’t mean we have to resign ourselves to slumping in front of the TV. Here are some hacks to bring the sexiness back ASAP.

Pamper yourself

Sometimes, all it takes is a nice long soak in the bath to melt away all the tension and help you to loosen up. Add your favourite fragrance, and play some calming tunes to get all those senses gently stimulated. Slather yourself in soothing body lotion afterwards, and slip into something slinky. Chances are, your mood has improved already.

Listen to some erotic stories

There has been a creative outpouring of erotica that appeals to all genders in recent years, so if you always thought it was just aimed at seedy older guys, it’s worth giving it another try. You can find short stories to fulfil an unlimited range of sexy scenarios, that go way beyond the tired old male fantasy stereotypes.

Use a sex toy

Whether it’s your favourite pink vibrator, or a remote-controlled device you can use outside the bedroom, sex toys are the go-to shortcut to get us from 0 to 60 in a matter of minutes. Let your partner take control and surprise you when you are WFH, or just set aside some sexy me-time and the end of the day.

Practice mindfulness

If it’s a busy mind that’s stopping you from getting in the mood for sex, some mindfulness techniques which help you to focus on the present moment can work wonders.

Find somewhere quiet and comfortable to sit, and close your eyes. Focus on taking slow, deep, breaths. There are loads of free apps that you can download to talk you through the process.